No words~
To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die. Thomas Campbell
My dear readers,
I don't even know how to write these words, so I'm just going to write them...
My older brother passed away unexpectedly yesterday morning.
I'm in shock.
And grieving.
Because of my faith, I believe I will see him again.
But until then, I pray that my Heavenly Father will hold him close and let him know how very much he is loved.
Because my blog is a form of therapy for me, and because my readers are an important part of my life, I wanted to let you all know. I'll be back soon.
xoxo
Wendy
172 comments:
I'm so sorry. I know our Father in Heaven has a plan. Turning to Him is exactly what will help you through this time. I know you don't know me, but my thoughts, prayers and love are with you right now.
Calise
Wendy,
I am so, so sorry for all the pain and confusion you must be feeling. I know how difficult it is to lose someone unexpectedly and I'll be praying for you and your family.
I'm so very sorry.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am very sorry for your loss.. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am so,so sorry for your loss.
You will all be in my prayers tonight this is such a hard time for all of you and my heart goes out to you.
Love Kristina XxX
It was very brave of you to take the time to let us know. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. xx
I'm so sorry to hear =( I lost my older sister 5 years ago, it is a very sad time. You will find strength in the love your friends and family will give to you, so hold on to that.
May God hold you close in his hands. I am sorry for your loss. Keep praying.
Charla
Oh...I will be praying for you! May God shed his grace upon you and give you a {peace} only God can give....may you hold Him close-
Sandy Toe
So sorry for your loss - my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Lindsay
I am sorry. Prayers to yo uand your family.
i. am. so very sorry...
mary
So very sorry for you, your family and everyone who loved your brother.
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I can only guess the feelings and questions that you have, despite your faith. Just know that God does have a plan and that one day, because of your faith, you'll see your beloved brother again with our Father.
Prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. May your faith and His love guide you through this difficult time.
My heart breaks for you. Our prayers are with you and yours.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers and thoughts are being sent your way.
I am so very sorry to hear about your losses. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Oh Wendy, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Oh Wendy, I am sorry to hear about your brother.
You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care
hugs...I am so sorry for your loss.
oh wendy! i am so sorry for you and your family! i could not imagine! my heart is sad for you! but i believe too that you will see him again and that God is taking wonderful care of him! xo
So sorry for your loss, thinking of you.
I'm so sorry. I, too, am so grateful for the knowledge that you (and I) will be with those who pass before us again. Until then, may the Lord bless and comfort you and your family.
Oh no! I am so sorry for your loss. At least you have the hope b/c of your faith that you will see him again one day in heaven but I know it won't take away from the pain you are experiencing now. You will be in my thoughts and prayers today. May God wrap His arms around you and your family during this time of grief. God Bless.
Hana
I am so sorry to hear about your brother.
I am so sorry for your loss! How thankful we become for the plan of salvation at times like this! I hope you and your family feel comforted at this time...
Sooo very sorry for your loss. God be with you and give you peace. LindaSonia
i am so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for you loss. I can't even imagine. Prayers for you and your family.
words are not enough in a situation like this but it's all I can offer. I am so very sorry for your loss & my thoughts are with you and your family. Take your time to grieve the way you need to and trust in your belief that you will see him again someday.
Oh, I am so sorry as well. I pray you and your family will know the peace that surpasses all understanding from the Heavenly Father. Take care.
Suzanne
Oh, I am so sorry as well. I pray you and your family will know the peace that surpasses all understanding from the Heavenly Father. Take care.
Suzanne
I am so very sorry - you are in my thoughts.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this.
Prayers and hugs for you and your entire family.
I am so sorry. Sending out prayers for comfort and peace.
I am so very sorry for your loss - my prayers are with your family.
My sister passed away suddenly 9 years ago and you never really get over it. But you will get through it. There is hope.
Our family's thoughts and prayers go out to yours. I'm so sorry!
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I hope you feel the comfort you need every day until you meet again.
Wendy I am so sorry to hear about your brother. :-( I know you are going through a lot right now. Kevin and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Love you friend,
Layla
I am so so sorry. May you feel God's peace that passes all understanding.
I am so, so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. YOu are in our prayers...take as much time away as you need.
(((Wendy))) many hugs to you and your family. Know that you are all in our prayers.
Wendy - I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping your family in my prayers.
<3 and prayers, Wendy.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry to read that. I am sending you a BIG hug and many prayers. Leslie
Wendy,I'm so sorry for your loss you are in my thoughts and prayers....Barb
SO sorry for your loss...I will cover you and your family in prayers...
Many Blessings!
Jill
Praying God's grace and comfort for you and your family.
I'm so sorry for your loss. God's comfort be with you!
I'm very sorry about your brother. I've been lurking for some time but wanted to let you know I'll be praying for you and your loved ones.
So sorry to hear about your brother. May you find comfort in many places during this time.
I am so sorry...
I'm so very very sorry! Words don't help much at times like this - but you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh my gosh, I am so, so sorry for you at the sudden loss of your brother. Please take care of yourself and your family. We will all be praying for you. ((((HUGS)))
Praying for you and your family at this sad time.
You and your family are in my prayers at this time. So sorry!
I am sooo sorry for your loss. Words are not adequate to share my sympathy. Hold on to the good memories and look forward to your reunion. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
XO,
Pam
Terrible to hear. May you find strength in your faith and the strength of your family!
We know your pain as we too lost a brother and we pray that the Lord will eventually replace the hurt in your heart with peace and happy memories.
My heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss. There has been a lot of sadness so far this year. Take care of yourself. Your quote couldn't be more true.
I'm so so sorry for your loss! You and your family will be in my prayers. May God shower you with the comfort that only He can give.
So Sorry....
I am so sorry to hear of that news Wendy! May you find peace in knowing that he is with our almighty Father. My thoughts are with you as you go thru this process!
Michelle
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace and comfort.
So sorry to hear this.
There are no words, just prayers that somehow our Heavenly Father will be glorified through this and you will feel inspiration from your brother's life.
Thinking of your family.
I am so sorry Wendy. Prayers for you and your family. I hope you can feel peace and comfort from Heavenly Father at this very difficult time.
*Hugs*
So sorry to hear about your loss. Isn't it wonderful to have faith and to know that this life isn't the end. Sending prayers to your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I am so very sorry to hear your brother passed away! Praying for you and your family!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
May the Holy Spirit comfort and keep you during this time of mourning. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
I am so very sorry. I'll be praying for you and your family during this time.
So so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
So very sorry. Praying for you and your family.
Dear Wendy
Praying for all of you during this very difficult time. I am truly truly sorry for the loss of your brother, may your heart be comforted by the love of your family and friends.
Warm Regards
Kate
So many people praying for you. Feel the love of friends and also feel the arms of our Savior holding you close at this most difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm so very sorry to hear this. I am praying for you and your family in this time of shock and grief.
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Faith does help.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine how you and your family are feeling right now. I will keep you in our thoughts, and hope you are able to take the time to heal.
hugs.
Dear Lord, I pray that you keep your arms around Wendy and her family during this difficult time. Give them the peace that they are so desperately needing. Please bless them with the knowledge of your love and the love of their loss.
In Your Name I pray, Amen.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
~ Sarah
I can't even imagine your grief..prayers to you and your family.
debi
I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy losing a loved one but you will see him again and God will help your heart to heal. We will be praying for you and your family during this time. God bless!
So sorry to hear your news. I'll keep you and your family in my heart.
~Amy
Oh Wendy. Please know that you are in my prayers. Truly.
Oh Wendy. Please know that you are in my prayers. Truly.
Wendy,
I am so so sorry for your loss. Iknow that you know that he has been embraced by the Savior & is in the care of our Heavenly Father. You are so right, He does have a plan for him. It makes us feel better to know that, but it sure doesn't take away the grief. You are in my prayers as well. {{{big hugs}}}
Shellagh
I'm so sorry wendy. Kisses, love, hugs and comfort of Jesus,
MMW
I am very sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your family in this most difficult time.
Elizabeth
I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost a big brother unexpectantly two years ago. I received a call about 11 pm from one of my other brothers...it was "not real" but why would he say it if it wearn't true. I had to call my Dad...strange how strong you can pretend to be. You are blessed to have your faith, like me, I know I will meet him again. Treasure the memories!
So sorry for your loss you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Holly
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
I lost my dad suddenly 12 yrs ago. I still get homesick for him. I think the first year was the toughest. All the things I had expected him to be there for and he wasn't. Once in church, a friend of mine's baby was blessed. Her dad and all her brothers were there. My daughter was due in a couple of months. I almost sobbed right there knowing my dad would not be there and that I lived so far from my brothers. Family is so great! Glad you are close enough to your brother to miss him even if it hurts.
So very sorry to hear that. =(
Dear Wendy,
I am so, so sorry for your profound loss. I will pray for your whole family.
I'm so terribly sorry.
I echo everyone else-I'm so sorry. :(
Wendy, I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I am very close to my sister, and I can only imagine what you're going through right now. You and your entire family will be in my prayers!
Oh my gosh. Wendy! I'm so sorry! My heart and my prayers go out to you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
I'm in tears for you, I'm so sorry for your loss....
I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I will keep your family in my prayers.
I am so sorry Wendy.
You will be in our prayers!!!
Wendy,
Prayers to you as you grieve the loss of your brother. As believers we do have the comfort of being reunited again. God bless you during this difficult time.
Your Sister in Christ,
Wendy
I'm so sorry, Wendy. Many prayers and much love are sent your way.
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I'm so very sorry for your loss ~
You and your family will be in my prayers!
I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so very sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Lord, I ask for your peace for Wendy and her family. For every one touched by this life. Touch them in their deepest grief with a presence of peace that only you can give.
Amen.
I am so sorry.
I am SO sorry Wendy! (hugs)
I am so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
My thoughts & prayers are with you Wendy. Though you have faith the loss is hard & dramatic, God Bless!
My heart hurts for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort and peace.
I am so sorry. We will be lifting your family up in prayer.
Praying for you and your family right now.. for comfort and peace.
I love you big sis!!!!!
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Praying for you & your family!
Oh Wendy...my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. God has a plan, although we don't know it right now and it seems cruel. I lost my sister unexpectedly 13 years ago...and the hurt never goes away.
Be strong my friend...big hugz,
Michele
Very sorry to hear of your loss. You are always so willing to share, and I don't think I've commented before, but I wanted to tell you that I hope you and your family can feel at peace.
That made my chest hurt. I've lost a brother to. And it's not fair. May Heavenly Father hold your family in the palm of His hand.
I am so sorry for your heartbreak. Hold fast to your faith... what would we do without it?
Thinking of you....
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry.
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
so very sorry for your loss
I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Wendy - I'm so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Like onehm, I don't know that I've ever commented on your blog even though I always read it, but I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family feel of our Heavenly Father's love at this time.
I don't know how I can possibly offer anything helpful; I can only imagine your pain. But please know you are in my thoughts.
Wendy, I will pray for you and your family. I am so glad that you have assurance that your brother is with the Lord and you will rejoice with him once again. I know that doesn't erase the sadness of the hole he will leave on this earth. Take care.
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers... praying for peace and wisdom during this time.
So sorry for your loss. Blessings to you and your family.
Cindy at Lakewood
I am so sorry for your loss...Pat H
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
I can only imagine the pain you feel. Just remember that things WILL get better with time...you now have another angel looking after you:)
God Bless xoxo
I, too, am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh wow. :( This is a season of grieving for you. It is so good you have this online community for support during this time. Death is so difficult to deal with. I hope your hearts get held at this time more than ever before.
You are in my prayers. Love to you & your family.
I'm so sorry! I pray that the supernatural comfort & peace of the Lord will be with your family in this time!
Wendy, I am so very, very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers...
Much love,
Linda
Words do not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I do certainly understand as I have lost all three of my older brothers and my mom in the last few years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your lovely family.
God Bless,
Carol
Dearest Wendy,
My heart is broken for you, but as a fellow daughter of God I know you know and understand the plan of our Father-- no words I offer can speak greater truth.
May He send His Holy Comforter to cloak you and your family with peace at this difficult time. Let loose of what you can't control, serenity will be yours.
My prayers will be with you and yours.
Wendy, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. We love you and we will be praying for you. It's times like these that we have to truly trust in the Lord and in His plan. I wish you peace.
I am so sorry for you and Holly. I am glad that you are in Utah now. I agree, I have no words either. Just know that I am thinking of you both.
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your older brother. I, too, have lost my older brother who I adored in 2002 without any warning. May you find comfort in your memories of happy times with your brother and hopefully your grief will lessen as time goes on. I never, ever, thought that I would not grow old with my beloved brother. Fortunately, my oldest brother is still living and for that I am grateful. But not a day goes by that I don't miss older brother.
Teacup Lane (Sandy)
I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers for God's continued peace and comfort.
I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss...sometimes it is hard to see God's plan in the midst of such sorrow...I lost my sweet Mother-in-law unexpectedly like this...I stand everyday just believing that He is God and one day I will understand the purpose of allowing this to happen. I will be praying for you for comfort that passes all understanding.
(((HUGS)))
Wendy, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers of comfort are with you and your entire family as you celebrate his life with your memories.
Hugs to you, and I know He will comfort you in this time.
~Tracy~
We all need care. And believe it or not, I don't know how all of this works, but we are all in this together. In this life together. Here. Together.
My heart goes out to you and your family. I had tears in my eyes when I read your words today. Please know that I am carrying around loving thoughts for you!
~Kolein
I'm so sorry for your loss!
So sorry for your loss. Praying for peace and comfort.
Wendy, I am deeply sorry. Praying for your whole family.
Know I'm thinking of you,
xo,
LuLu
Wendy, I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. My sister in law passed away 7 years ago, and It's so tragic and difficult and unfair.We are here for you and our prayers are with you. Jen
I am so very sorry that this happened. While knowing you will see him again sustains you, it is still hard to accept that he is physically not with you. Grief can be a miraculous tool to searching your soul and realizing what is important, and what we have MADE important that is taking too much time away from our families. Prayers are heading your way.
God bless
My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so sorry.An unexpected death of a sibling is so hard to comprehend. ((hugs)) Remember the good time.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother Wendy. I have only just recently started reading your blog. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. :)
Kristi
How awful to lose a sibling. I just read Holly's blog and then shot over to your blog too. My heart and prayers are with you guys. Alysa
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